How To Love Your Bipolar (Manic Depressive) Girlfriend
8. Be mature enough to deal and handle her
Something too big is not for everybody, it is a given. You could not ask for her apology for being too much or ask to soften her edge for you. Love her dearly and understand that she might be a little different from other girls you have dealt with. Know that her emotions are her sky-rocket appeal but sometimes could be her downfall too. You cannot ask for her explanation for bursting, you could only admire her fireworks. You could not tell her to get a grip or calm down, you could only watch her rocks in avalanche falling until they do no more.
She is not a challenge to overcome or a broken thing to fix or even an art to be impressed with. She is whole, she just happened to feel so much more.And if you find yourself too little for someone too big, then let your love for her be the fuel for you to keep up too.
9. Set your high bar for yourself and make yourself someone for her to look up to
Even if our lover has already peaked our worst, we must still always thrive and strive to let our best selves take over. Not only do we need to make the relationship work out, but we must also stick our individual selves to our best behavior and practice our best habit. And what we repeatedly do tells who we are. Not only would she love you for your virtues and vices but you could make her fall in love with you exponentially and break the notion of loving a bipolar girl makes an unhealthy relationship. Do not only turn the table upside down, but conquer stigma not “despite” of her condition but “because” of her idiosyncrasy.