5 Dark Truths Behind the Dreaded “Discard”
3 – Narcissists don’t need people they can attach to or form strong, emotional bonds with.
What they need is constant, unswerving, unblemished validation.
Preferably from someone whom the narcissist believes is intelligent, successful, and most of all…diplomatic.
But, don’t believe for a second that if you give these things to them, your relationship can be salvaged.
The irony is if you give up your entire identity to placate the narcissist, they will become bored and repelled and seek new supply, anyway.
Tip – Do not believe that once they “discard” you, you’re no longer intelligent or successful.
You might be distracted or unfocused due to emotional manipulation, but having been narcissistically abused is not a gauge for intelligence.
It’s not a cognitive matter.